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How To Be A Better Patient Self-Advocate: a blog post for EVERYONE




You’ve been there before. Sitting in the doctor’s waiting room, listening for your turn. You’re nervous.

It’s not the doctor that most people fear. It is the worry of not being heard or helped.





You’ve heard the term ‘patient-centered medicine’ but has that been your experience?


I define patient self-advocacy as the act of speaking up and acting for one’s interests within the healthcare decision-making process.



This is not a blog post on how to fix the healthcare system. This is a post about what each of us can do as patient self-advocates to demand better.


With the help of some of my patients, I want to show you how YOU can become a better patient self-advocate. By adopting a captain mindset, building your own team, maximizing each appointment, knowing your rights and speaking up you’ll be able to level up your health experience.



A Captain Mindset



“Going through some complex medical issues the past few years, I found myself frequently wishing that I had a medical team that would communicate with each other and that they would figure out what was best for me. Each provider was worried about their specific task but no one was looking at me as a whole person.”



Assuming an active role in your medical care is an impactful step towards creating your own positive health experience.


I refer to this as developing a CAPTAIN mindset. A captain mindset means you steer the ship. You listen to your team, appreciate their roles and expertise, but you make the calls.



It means you’re the boss.




“We can’t assume as patients that our providers will always ask us the questions that are important. We are the experts in knowing what goes on in our bodies and in our lives. I used to hold back information in my medical visits until I realized if my doctors knew more about me, it might help them. So I got more comfortable talking about all the things that affected my pain, including the personal things I’m usually embarrassed to discuss.”



Health care providers (HCPs) are experts in their field but YOU are the expert of you. It should be a collaboration.


You know best what you want and need. When you describe this to your provider it helps them see you as an individual who has specific goals.


The empowerment of taking control will lead to greater self-efficacy. This has been shown to positively affect attitude and ultimately overall perception of health.



One of the most important tasks you face as a captain is building your team. You need help navigating the murky waters of medicine.



One might also call it a coxswain's mindset




Build your team



“It took me a really long time to find all the providers that really help me with my longstanding pain. I wish I knew then what experience has taught me. You can’t always rely on referrals from your doctors, friends or insurance. You have to be proactive. It took me 4.5 years to get there.”



Find a match. Finding a match with a provider means looking beyond their degree and certifications. Medical specialty and training are important but other attributes may be essential to a good fit. Specifically write down your preferences for things like gender, tenure, location, insurance, alternative/holistic approach.



Hopefully you find several good matches



Tap into your network. I’ve found the best way for me to connect others with good clinicians is asking people I respect. If you don’t have a big network start asking around.


Research. Check out various websites like vitals.com. Don’t get excited about all the letters behind their name or the professional sports teams they work for. That doesn’t always mean they are a good fit.


Your team is more than one person. Form relationships with members of the whole practice like nursing assistants and front office personnel. Showing appreciation and respect for everyone in the office very well may be critical in getting what you need.



Stronger together



The importance of co-advocates. Your team should include individuals not directly involved in your medical care. I call these individuals co-advocates. A second set of ears can be helpful at an appointment. Parents are the original co-advocates who can teach kids to speak up about their health and wellness preferences.


The essentials need to be met. There are critical things that you must feel with any clinician: namely, safe and respected. Unfortunately discrimination, such as ageism, sexism, weight shaming, language barriers, and mental illness stigmas exist today. They adversely affect individuals seeking medical care and should not be tolerated.


Be ok with a break-up. If your needs are not being met, self-advocacy may mean changing providers. Don’t feel bad about it; feel good that you are looking out for yourself.



Maximize each appointment


The past few years I’ve found myself doing a lot of coaching of my patients to help them maximize their medical visits with me and other providers. During these conversations I’ve even gained some tips.



I want my provider to be prepared so we can avoid follow-up meetings or phone calls needed because they had to go back and find something out that they could have worked on before our meeting.”



Before- Get Prepared



Proactive from the start. A brief phone call prior to your initial visit with a provider will help jump-start your relationship and your care.


Strategize. Reflect on what your ideal appointment looks like. Verbalize it out loud or write it down.


What are all the moves you want to make?



Give “prepared” a bad name. Send in paperwork in advance if possible. The likelihood that it will get reviewed is higher that way.


Find time to get your labs and other diagnostics completed a week prior. Even if they are sent directly to your provider, bring a copy of results with you.


If you feel that your case is complicated, or you want to focus on a specific issue, mention that when scheduling.



“A week before a scheduled appointment I will often send an email or use the messaging service portal provided by the health provider organization to list the issues I want to go over and questions I want to have answered. Sometimes I include a reminder about something that the doctor said he/she would do at our last meeting as a reminder.”



Research your medical issue


Many health care practitioners will roll their eyes at the mention of Dr. Google. While there are downsides, the internet can be a big driver of patient empowerment. Embrace it but recognize it’s potential downfalls.



The doctor will see you now....



Do research to find out:


Standard of care for your health issue. What should your provider be expected to know in terms of diagnostics and interventions for your health issue?


Seek alternatives. Don’t assume that ‘standard of care’ always means best of care. Explore alternatives and be comfortable bringing them up in your conversations with your clinician.


Communities of like-minded people. Connect with folks who are going through the same issues or who believe in pursuing similar avenues of medicine. (eg, holistic)



During



“I want to leave my appointments feeling that I now know everything that I wanted to know from the health professional.”



Check in: When you check in ask what the expected wait time might be. If it is long, use the extra to prepare for your face-time with the provider.


Record everything: Take notes. If there is something in particular that you don’t think you’ll remember ask if you can record them explaining it.


Ask questions Ask all of your questions, even ones that embarrass you. If you don’t have any pressing concerns still try to ask a question.


Be persistent with getting answers to your questions even if the responses are “I don’t know” or “I need to do more research.”


Be a parrot. You should get as much clarity as possible when it comes to your health. Repeat back what you heard and summarize your appointment and/or the plan going forward for your provider.


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